The process of moving in together was a long drawn out task. It was a constant struggle to keep the one bedroom apt organized and livable. Happily, we worked especially well with each other, running DeFilippo Studio, Inc. and managing the 69 Unit Apt building where we lived and worked. We juggled our responsibilities, opening the sound stage at 7:30 A.M. for shoots, producing TV commercials, designing and creating special effects, dealing with tenants and building issues into the night. After twelve years of this routine, we had become well accustomed to having dinner at 11:00 P.M. One evening, after scaring every imaginary monster away for one of the nutty tenants, Dom and I finally had time to sit. I was determined to create room in our overfilled closets and asked him to spend time getting rid of unused things. "All those ancient suits", I went on, " I've never even seen you wear any of em. They're outdated... like that checkered thing, the corduroy one and that cream one. " "Oh !", Dom mused, " Well... let me tell you somethin', Babe", { the name he mostly called me unless there was something serious to discuss }, "I can NEVER get rid of that cream suit ! That's my LUCKY SUIT ! " "Y'know, it had to be a good 20 years ago that I wore it for the first time. I was going to a rehearsal dinner and got ready early 'cause some of the guys were gonna play a few hands of poker first. I thought a black shirt and black shoes would look snappy with it. " "I was hungry and drove to a diner. Y'know, the one in your old neighborhood near the Police precinct. It was down the block from where my friend lived. Y'know the place I'm talkin' about ? What was the name of it ? I wonder if its still there. " "Anyway, when I came out, it started pouring like mad and I saw these two little girls opening an umbrella. But it wasn't any old umbrella; it was the first time I ever saw a collapsible umbrella and it fascinated me. I thought, why didn't I invent that !" "Anyway, I yelled, 'Girls Girls...would you walk me to my car ?'" "Oh my God !", my jaw dropped and I suddenly stood with the shock of the unexpected revelation, "We have to call my sister right away ! " "What's the matter, Babe ? Did you forget to do something important?" " No, no. You have to tell her this story right now or you may never know just how lucky that suit really is.", I insisted. Despite the midnight hour on a work night, Gigi was phoned and Dom unwittingly retold the unfinished story. He wanted to finally say how he always won in poker whenever he wore the Lucky Suit. Instead he was interrupted again with her holler of recognition, " OH WOW - OH WOW !" To everyone's surprise, Dom turned out to be, not only the Handsome Man in the rainstorm, but the Motorcycle Man too ! Is it any wonder that the name "Dominic" means "Gift from God" . He certainly was that for me. For many happy decades, the hum of that Candy Apple Red Harley was a delightful reminder of God's mercy in healing me after almost an entire year of being ill ! As for the three piece Lucky Suit, it will forever remain a cherished item in my closet. I will remember to be specific and careful what I ask of God because He gave me exactly, precisely what I had asked for... and more ! WOW ... indeed !
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Franny
9/23/2012 10:38:50 am
That's what I call destiney I always know you two were ment for each other and I guess the almighty agreed
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cindy
9/23/2012 02:08:39 pm
Beautiful photo of you and Dom. God Bless!
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GG
9/26/2012 02:13:58 pm
publish "destiny" stories...you know...the
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Tammie
10/4/2012 02:23:05 am
What an amzing story...I know I've heard it before, but I never get tired of it...it's a true miracle and a real testament to God that He knows what we really need in our lives. Bless you always.
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paula defilippo
10/9/2012 03:24:10 am
Undine...What a wonderful story...and memories of you both..I am lucky to have known you both and be there for a great part of my life...You two where the most Fabulous Amazing , Beautiful couple..I was proud to be Dominics Daughter In Law and have you as my Step Mom...but I always thought of you as a dear Friend...Who i spent alot of time with and my children so that makes you the step gramma...lolMy girls have so many memories of you both...Priscilla loved you both still does...That is why she named her littl boy Dominc...cuz her grandpa had a big part of her memories and love ...even tho we didnt see each other because of situations that we couldnt...we still loved and talked about you both...I remeber always going to your apartment for your wonderful dinners...hanging out with you ...You showed me how to sew...and help me make a beautiful gold dress.....I only wish you could meet and see your Great Grandson Dominc...We Miss You and miss not seeing Dominic i still cant believe he is gone...I pray for him ....and i do believe he has visited us from heaven it is very real we feel his presence in our home at times and has tolded me things thru dreams...I do and know it his Dominic an angel in Heaven....We Love you Undine
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