FAH - TEE - MAH - TEE - TOE - MAH - TEE - KAH - TEE I remember a frozen February evening, much like this one tonight, where the thermometer read below zero and snow crystals blew and whistled in the wind. It was a quiet evening until the phone rang. My neighbor called to report a cat howling on her porch. I was still hunting for my kitty who had vanished some months before. Hopeful, I trudged through the crisp piles of snow that separated our homes, when I spied the shadow of a hunched and howling cat. I called softly, "kitty - kitty - kitty". To my great surprise and delight, she ran directly into my arms ! I promptly tucked her in my jacket where she instantly went limp. Only an occasional shiver let me know she was still alive. Alas, In the light of my foyer I discovered she was NOT my returned beloved. Still, she was in dire need of safe haven, infested with fleas, worms crawling out of her nose and mouth, and starved beyond emaciation. Obviously that evening would have been her last. The local country Veterinarian, whose expertise saved her life, recognized her as being one of his patients and phoned the family that owned her. His face dropped as he handed the receiver to me. The woman declared, "We had hoped she was dead ! We put her in a cardboard box and tossed her in the woods several months ago ! If you want that mean vicious miserable biter that peed and pooped all over my house, you can keep her !" Yes... I did just exactly that ! It cost me several hundred dollars in Vet bills. Yes...it did ! I renamed this ten year old "Katie" to FATIMA and she never stopped purrrrrrrrrrrring for ALL the rest of her very happy years with me. She especially loved whenever I sang to her and sat up with pride when I sing-songed: FAH-TEE MAH-TEE TOE-MAH-TOW KAH-TEE She sat and admired her food bowl for hours with those lovely green eyes and I teased her for becoming a little plump. She patiently and lovingly helped my husband and I raise a rambunctious puppy. She meowed with concern whenever she heard a baby cry on TV. She was super sweet, incredibly kind, hysterically funny, and clean as a whistle... and never ever, never, NO , NOT EVEN ONCE did she ever display what she had been accused of. Fatima was eighteen the day she had her final visit at the Vet. Dear Reader: I would LOVE to read your own animal rescue stories !!! YOU COULD POST THEM HERE !!! and respond to your input and comments ! Just CLICK on the word "Comments" on the top right of this page to get started. YOU WILL BE ASKED TO INSERT A NAME BUTT YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LEAVE A REAL NAME AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FILL IN AN E-MAIL ADDRESS, UNLESS YOU WANT TO ! THANK YOU !
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Every adult in the USA should be made aware of HIPAA Privacy Rules, { click highlighted text to learn details }, and how they affect one's personal health care. It would be a lie to claim that these lengthy and complicated laws were only created to protect an individual's medical information from becoming public. There's a great deal more to it than meets the immediate eye. There is a very real danger to every adult US Citizen, of being victimized by Medical decisions made by strangers, some based on Federal Law, as opposed to personal medical choices. The HIPAA Privacy Rules make it impossible for even your nearest and dearest to know anything about your Medical condition and certainly prevents anyone, except those in the Medical Community, from making decisions regarding your medical treatment, should it be determined that you are incapable ! It's simple and inexpensive to protect yourself against becoming vulnerable to this danger. You'll need a few sheets of paper and a dollar as payment to a Notary, { easily found at most Banks }, to create a legal document that will name one, { or more }, of your chosen trusted individuals who can act as a Health Care Agent on your behalf, to carry out your health care decisions, in the event you become incapable of doing so yourself. This legal document is called a HEALTH CARE PROXY or HEALTH CARE DIRECTIVE. Each State has it's own HEALTH CARE PROXY or DIRECTIVE FORM requirements, but, mostly they are the same. I suggest you GOOGLE SEARCH your particular State. New Yorkers can copy, paste and print the following form: Fill in the form as you desire, BUTT, SIGN IT ONLY WHEN THE NOTARY IS READY !!! Keep your original document safe at home and carry a copy in your wallet or handbag. Be certain to have all your Doctors, { including the Dentist !!! }, make a copy and request to have it stapled to the inside cover of your personal folder. Supply your chosen Health Care Agents with a few copies too. The following real life situation could have been avoided with this simple one page document: Susan and James Smith have been happily married for ten years. One unfortunate morning, Susan was in a car accident on the way to work. Unconscious, but still alive, the ambulance takes her to a local Hospital for emergency treatment. Lucky for Susan, a neighbor witnesses the accident and tells her husband. James rushes to the Hospital and identifies himself at the Emergency Room Reception Window where he learns that the HIPAA Privacy Rules prevent the staff from divulging ANY information regarding the medical treatment of his beloved wife, Susan !!! THE NIGHTMARE HAS JUST BEGUN ! It has now been determined that Susan Smith has suffered irreversible brain and body trauma. She is in horrible pain and incoherent. The medical staff injects her with morphine and, because of Federal Law, they place Susan on Life Support. Every three hours the morphine wears off and Susan writhes in horrible pain for fifteen minutes as nurses run to hold her down and administer another dose of morphine. There is no hope for Susan's recovery, but Life Support can keep her in this state for several months... perhaps several years. James is distraught and has absolutely NO legal right to make any decision regarding the Medical care of his beloved wife. He knows she was against having her life prolonged with artificial respiration, feeding and hydration tubes and is, himself, traumatized by the fact that he has no ability to honour her health care wishes and alleviate her unnecessary suffering. Will he be able to find a Lawyer who can help them ? Dear Reader: I would love to read and respond to your input and comments ! Just CLICK on the word "Comments" to get started. YOU WILL BE ASKED TO INSERT A NAME BUTT YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LEAVE A REAL NAME AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FILL IN AN E-MAIL ADDRESS, UNLESS YOU WANT TO ! THANK YOU ! Frosted Window Pane...CLICK to enlarge " I paused to listen to the silence. My breath, crystallized as it passed my cheeks, drifted on a breeze gentler than a whisper. The wind vane pointed toward the South Pole. Presently the wind cups ceased their gentle turning as the cold killed the breeze. My frozen breath hung like a cloud overhead. The day was dying, the night was being born, but with great peace. Here were the imponderable processes and forces of the cosmos, harmonious and soundless. HARMONY, that was it ! That was what came out of the silence - a gentle rhythm, the strain of a perfect chord, the music of the spheres, perhaps. It was enough to catch that rhythm, momentarily to be myself a part of it. In that instant I could feel no doubt of man's oneness with the universe. The conviction came that that rhythm was too orderly, too harmonious, too perfect to be a product of blind chance - that, therefore, there must be purpose in the whole and that man was part of that whole and NOT an accidental offshoot. It was a feeling that transcended reason; that went to the heart of man's despair and found it groundless. The universe is a cosmos, NOT a chaos; man is as rightfully a part of that cosmos as are the day and night." Admiral Richard E. Byrd { finding peace and God in the frigid twilight } The Beaverkill River, NY - CLICK to enlarge When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, And the road your trudging seems all uphill; When the funds are low and the debts are high... When care is pressing you down a bit - Rest, if you must, but don't quit. Life is queer with its twists and turns, As every one of us sometimes learns. And many a fellow turns about When he might have won, had he stuck it out. So, don't give up, Though the pace seems slow - You may succeed with another blow ! Often, the goal is nearer than would seem to a faltering man; Often, the struggler has given up, When he might have captured the Victor's Cup; And he learned too late, When the night came down, How close he was to the Golden Crown ! Success is failure turned inside out - The silver tint in the clouds of doubt; You can never tell how close you are ! It may be near when it seems afar. So, stick to the fight when you're hardest hit. It's when things seem worst that You mustn't quit !!! { The Author of This Poem is Unknown. } |
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